{"id":1777,"date":"2017-01-14T09:07:51","date_gmt":"2017-01-14T15:07:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.glorajean.com\/content\/?p=1777"},"modified":"2017-01-14T09:07:51","modified_gmt":"2017-01-14T15:07:51","slug":"five-dollar-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.glorajean.com\/content\/?p=1777","title":{"rendered":"Five Dollar Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What exactly is the big deal?<\/p>\n<p>In Adult Roles and Financial Literacy class at Highland High School in Salt Lake City,\u00a0the teacher handed out an assignment. The boys received a blue paper, while the girls received a pink paper.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the color of the paper offended people?<\/p>\n<p>The instructions began, &#8220;Your assignment is to go on a date! But, the catch is you can only spend $5.00, this does not include gas.&#8221; Perhaps the point of offensive was taken here, as a run-on sentence beginning with &#8220;But!&#8221; should make\u00a0every English student cringe!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Below is a list of suggestions from the girls.&#8221; From what group of girls? Where they polled from a previous class? As I read the suggestions, it would seem that they were taken from a survey of other students, though I&#8217;d like clarity on this\u00a0source.<\/p>\n<p>The instructions encourage that the assignment may completed as a group date, pooling money for the activity.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve taken up the blue subtitled &#8220;Boys Paper&#8221; (which I feel link should contain an apostrophe)\u00a0to analyze:<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<ul>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"1\" data-listid=\"3\">Make plans for the date and let the girl know what they are doing<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"2\" data-listid=\"3\">Have creative ideas for dates.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">Use good manners:\n<ul>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">table manners<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">chew with mouth closed<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">open doors for her<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">introduce her to your friends<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"3\" data-listid=\"3\">no gross noises<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"4\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t gripe about the money you&#8217;re spending or don&#8217;t have.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"5\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t spend too much time talking about things she isn&#8217;t interested in or about yourself.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"6\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t exaggerate to your friends about what happened on the date.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"7\" data-listid=\"3\">Dress for the occasion, like you care about her:\n<ul>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"7\" data-listid=\"3\">appropriate clothes<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"7\" data-listid=\"3\">clean<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"7\" data-listid=\"3\">a little nice cologne<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"7\" data-listid=\"3\">nice breath<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"8\" data-listid=\"3\">Be prepared for the date (car gassed and ready to go)<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"9\" data-listid=\"3\">Be on time (or call if you can&#8217;t be on time)<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"10\" data-listid=\"3\">Give compliments when they are sincere.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"11\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t feel entitled to a kiss (or more).<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"12\" data-listid=\"3\">At a restaurant, say what you&#8217;re going to order so she will have a guide in ordering.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"13\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t comment or be concerned with how much she is or isn&#8217;t eating.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"14\" data-listid=\"3\">Be honest.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"15\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t use vulgar language or swear.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"16\" data-listid=\"3\">It&#8217;s okay to show your feelings.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"17\" data-listid=\"3\">Look out for her well being on a date, be considerate.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"18\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t talk about, flirt with, text or check out other girls when on a date.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"19\" data-listid=\"3\">Have a sense of humor, have a good time.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"20\" data-listid=\"3\">Keep up your end of the conversation, listen and respond.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"21\" data-listid=\"3\">Girls like flowers and little gifts.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"22\" data-listid=\"3\">Be respectful to her parents.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"23\" data-listid=\"3\">Have her home on time.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"24\" data-listid=\"3\">Don&#8217;t drive recklessly.<\/li>\n<li data-aria-level=\"1\" data-aria-posinset=\"25\" data-listid=\"3\">Show respect to her.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p>The bottom of the page gives three blank lines where the student was\u00a0to summarize the &#8220;date activities,&#8221; and concluded with a signature line for the &#8220;Date&#8217;s Signature.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Parents are upset with this?<\/p>\n<p>The overwhelming complaint I see online is that the suggestions are &#8220;from the 1960s,&#8221; &#8220;sexist,&#8221; or &#8220;inappropriate.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>What is the name of that class again? <i>Adult <\/i>Roles. Then this, in context with a lesson about social norms, is a fantastic assignment. Go out into the world, and practice interaction with another human being in a social setting. Show interest in her; show courtesy towards her, and show attentiveness toward her needs.<\/p>\n<p>The word that comes to mind is &#8220;Chivalry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>It is an assignment that might last for a couple of hours. They are skills that will serve the individual well in all aspects of life.<\/p>\n<p>Or would they rather that their boys be encouraged to take a girl out, stare at his phone, swear, thoughtlessly speak about people or topics, and make the girl uncomfortable?<\/p>\n<p>The page could have been rewritten for grammatical and clarity issues. Other than that, I have no problem with the premise of the assignment. I would encourage this assignment!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What exactly is the big deal? 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