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  1. Come unto me. Forbid them not.

    February 22, 2012 by Ryan

    Recently ten of our area church congregations met together in a semi-annual conference. This is one long two-hour meeting, and it can be tough for little kids to sit through.

    A few days later, I saw one young mother, a member of this expanded congregation, whom I had recognized as being at the meeting. I commented that it was good to see her there. She sighed and exclaimed, “I don’t know why I bother to go! My young girls don’t pay attention, and I don’t hear a word that is said while I try to keep them entertained!” She then added one more frustrated phrase: “It would just be easier to stay home from those meetings!”

    Even though I knew that she was speaking in frustration, that added line pricked my heart. It was a dangerous thought to entertain, and yet an honest emotion that many members feel each time these meeting approach. Why bother?

    I think the number one reason is explained by Jesus himself. Jesus called the little children unto him, and said, “Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God” (see Luke 18:16).

    Come unto me. Forbid them not. Jesus Himself didn’t find their youthful behavior annoying, distracting, or unwelcome. Rather, He admired their innocence. He welcomed their presence. Surely they understood more than many of the rude adults who approached Him in His ministry.

    Unfortunately, on the spot I didn’t think of that reason. But I did think of this: “Train up a child in the way [s]he should go: and when [s]he is old, [s]he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). If this young mother gave in to the temptation in her mind, like many of her peers did, then she would still be training her children in the importance of attending the meeting – in the opposite way. When those girls grow older, they will have learned from the example of their parents that it is easier to stay home and skip that week of services. When they are old enough to listen and appreciate the messages, they won’t be in attendance to hear them.

    So to that young mother, I say keep trying! The Lord recognizes your best efforts to raise His spirit daughters! Even though today you are chasing crayons that fall to the floor, in a few years you will be guiding the same young ladies through enemy-occupied territory of sin which this world will willingly offer to them.

    They will know to choose the good, because you showed them in the small and simple things! (Alma 37:6)

    See also the excellent talk “The Doctrinal Importance of Marriage and Children” by Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.


  2. What Do We Hear?

    February 22, 2012 by Ryan

    And, behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the Lord; but the Lord was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the Lord was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the Lord was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice. (Old Testament | 1 Kings 19:11-12)

    And it came to pass when they heard this voice, and beheld that it was not a voice of thunder, neither was it a voice of a great tumultuous noise, but behold, it was a still voice of perfect mildness, as if it had been a whisper, and it did pierce even to the very soul— And notwithstanding the mildness of the voice, behold the earth shook exceedingly…. (The Book of Mormon | The Book of Helaman 5:30-31)

    And it came to pass that while they were thus conversing one with another, they heard a voice as if it came out of heaven; and they cast their eyes round about, for they understood not the voice which they heard; and it was not a harsh voice, neither was it a loud voice; nevertheless, and notwithstanding it being a small voice it did pierce them that did hear to the center, insomuch that there was no part of their frame that it did not cause to quake; yea, it did pierce them to the very soul, and did cause their hearts to burn. And it came to pass that again they heard the voice, and they understood it not. And again the third time they did hear the voice, and did open their ears to hear it; and their eyes were towards the sound thereof; and they did look steadfastly towards heaven, from whence the sound came. And behold, the third time they did understand the voice which they heard…. (The Book of Mormon | Third Nephi 11:3-6)

    Now, what do we hear in the gospel which we have received? A voice of gladness! A voice of mercy from heaven; and a voice of truth out of the earth; glad tidings for the dead; a voice of gladness for the living and the dead; glad tidings of great joy. (Doctrine and Covenants 128:19)


  3. Man May Become

    February 19, 2012 by Ryan

    Some who are opposed to my faith casually call out a belief that “As God is, Man can become” as evidence of sacrilege. I’ve heard that ridiculed and flatly rejected by many Christians.

    I can’t really blame them. On the surface, when tossed about in a casual phrasing like that, it does sound arrogant, pompous, and absurd. After all, “When I consider thy heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the stars, which thou hast ordained; What is man, that thou art mindful of him?” (Psalm 8:3-4). It sounds disrespectful to God to think I could sit equal with Him!

    Yet ironically, whether they realize it or not, all followers of Christ already believe the concept is not only possible, but has already been done in at least one instance.

    Let me illustrate by reasoning together.

    Do you believe that Jesus was born of Mary? Did He poop His diapers? Did He spill His juice bottle? Did He run and stub His toe and cry about it? Did He hit his thumb at least once with the hammer in Joseph’s woodworking shop?

    Surely He did. He lived a human experience. He learned His social and academic skills. “And the child grew, and waxed strong in spirit, filled with wisdom: and the grace of God was upon him” (Luke 2:40).

    He grew from a baby into a boy. From a boy He grew to a Man. And from a Man, He became a God. He was the same Being the entire time, but moved through the stages of life in a progression to get to Godhood.

    Jesus is our example for living!

    Now, let state the obvious: There is a key difference between Him and us. The difference is that Jesus “was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin” (Hebrews 4:15). Because He was without sin, the process worked faster and more perfectly for Him. For our part, each has broken some laws of God and has complicated our lives and progression. All-in-all, however, the same pattern is in place. We grow, develop in spirit, fill our minds and souls with wisdom, repent (our extra step), and enjoy the grace of God upon us.

    Just as He outgrew childish things and became a Master over them, so do we. Paul described the process of maturation and self-mastery with these words: “But when that which is perfect [another translation might read 'whole' or 'complete'] is come, then that which is in part [or 'incomplete' or 'partial'] shall be done away” (see 1 Corinthians 13:10). The encounters of human growth and learning didn’t get Him down – He learned to master His mind and responses to them.

    As always, Jesus is our example for living.

    Believers won’t dispute that He went on to obtain His full reward with God the Father. He was received up into heaven, and sat on the right hand of God (see Mark 16:19 among many others). Notice that He didn’t unseat the Father; instead the scriptures always describe taking a place to the right side of Him.

    Does it diminish the position or rob God the Father to know that Jesus has also ascended to that title of Godhood? Heaven forbid the thought! Jesus has ascended to His Father, and has done all that must be done to earn the title of a God.

    If we are trying to follow Jesus, then next it is our turn. Paul told us, through his letter to the Philippians, to think like Jesus did in this matter. “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God.” (Philippians 2:5-6)

    Paul continues in verses 7-9 to tell us more about what Jesus did. He didn’t make Himself popular in the eyes of men. He willingly served others. He remained humble. He remained obedient unto death. It was those qualities of meekness and love that God “highly exalted him.” Those qualities sound very much like the same ones we should emulate.

    Because again, Jesus is our example for living.

    If I can work on those things, and mastering my emotions, and developing my ability to respond to the Holy Spirit – and if I appeal for and receive sufficient grace and forgiveness from God – then maybe I can get to that point in some eternal day. I don’t mind if I sit on the right, or the left, or in back – if there is a chair nearby the Heavenly Throne, I will be happy and content to take it. I’d even sit on the floor, or stand against the wall.

    Listen carefully to this verse in the context of our discussion: “The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together” (Romans 8:16-17). When we think of inheritances on earth, they are finite – ‘stuff’ is divided among siblings, so no one can have all. However, God deals in real estate infinite; the power and glory of God can be distributed without dividing, diminishing, or diluting the original. Christ inherited all of the glory, and we are invited to become joint-heirs with Him.

    Have I mention that Jesus is our example for living?

    Becoming as God is not a reward that man made up. It is clearly offered in the promise that we can each inherit all that the Father has. It is implied as a result of obedience to God’s laws. It is exemplified by the Son of God, who fulfilled all righteousness and showed the way.

    If God has held out the goal and offered the reward, then I intend to “come boldly unto the throne of grace” (Hebrews 4:16) and ask what I need to do to qualify for it.

    I’ll start with trying to work on Philippians 2:7-9. If I can get those down, I’ll work on the stuff in the Sermon on the Mount. I’ll seek out the grace of God, and repentance through the mercy and power of Jesus Christ. I’ll make covenants with God to show Him that I am committed to following through on keeping His commandments. I’ll seek and receive the promised blessings and graces for that obedience. There are basic things to work out. I’ve got to temper my own self. I can’t do any of this alone. Especially I cannot make myself ascend to the position of a God. I can’t even ascend on my own to be a member of His heavenly choir – or even His angelic custodial staff. That any of that is to happen, it will be if and when, at some future time, God the Father is ready and willing to bestow such a gift on me.

    I’ll always bow the knee in worship of the Savior and the Father in Their rightful places. I do not aspire to unseat them – Lucifer already tried that, and where did it get him? (see Isaiah 14:12-17) They will always hold that place of authority and order over me, for as long as there are eternal worlds without end. “But to us there is but one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we in him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, by whom are all things, and we by him” (1 Corinthians 8:6).

    And with that context, the idea of becoming like God doesn’t seem so far out there. Jesus was a child of God, and He did it.

    And after all, He is my perfect example for living.


  4. My advice for Loma Linda

    January 14, 2012 by Ryan

    I read a story that fascinates me. It takes place in Loma Linda, California; a city with about 23,000 residents.

    I invited myself to take a stroll through town using Google Earth. In my quick perusal, Loma Linda appears to be like any other Southern California town. I noticed a college, medical center, shopping malls, a gas station, and a drug store.

    It is interesting to note that in this city east of Los Angeles, people enjoy one of the longest life spans in the world. The average resident lives well into their 80′s. Fitness and clean living are the bywords here, and they have a healthy population of centenarians to support the claim.

    They also are a deeply religious community. Loma Linda is home to many followers of the Seventh-day Adventist faith. The religion encourages its followers to abstain from alcohol, tobacco and caffeine. They also encourage a vegetarian or vegan diet as well.

    I know a bit about living in a religious community, in a religion that encourages a healthy lifestyle. The Mormons also abstain from alcohol and tobacco, and encourage moderate consumption of meats. In our larger-than-average religious population, we also see health benefits when the people follow this council. I empathize with that.

    There is one other thing that the town of Loma Linda is missing. That would be a McDonald’s Restaurant.

    Now some would hold the opinion that the absence of this establishment is a plus to the charming city. The municipality already hosts a Del Taco, Carl’s Jr., and other fast-food fare. So naturally, it was only a matter of time before someone wanted to open a franchise and raise the Golden Arches within the city limits.

    The residents are crying “No!”

    The city council is considering whether or not to deny their permit to build.

    Parents are concerned that their children, raised with a McDonald’s restaurant in such close proximity, will desire to eat there. They will break the tenants of the majority religious faith, as well as develop unhealthy eating habits.

    I applaud those parents for taking a concerned interest in their children’s health and well being, and wish that all parents did the same everywhere. However, I don’t agree with your argument.

    If your children are younger, teach them that your family does not patronize that business. Teach them based on the merits of healthy eating, or the articles of your faith, or both.

    If you have older children, then I recognize that it becomes harder. You still must endeavor to use your influence to teach them what you believe, and your faith that they will follow in the ways of righteousness. As they grow and develop their independence and friendships, you only fool yourself if you believe that teenagers cannot travel to a neighboring city to taste a forbidden Big Mac, if they have a mind to do so.

    No, banning the restaurant because you think you cannot withstand the pleas of your young charges simply doesn’t make sense to me. Other restaurants are already in town serving similar foods. If you can withstand those temptations, you can likewise hold up against the invitation of the Ronald and his inviting Playplace™.

    Allow the restaurant to be built, and vote against it with your pocketbook. Do not support it financially. That is the proper way to handle the situation. The businessman will take the risk, and fail if the community doesn’t purchase his food. That is a normal, natural way.

    I suspect that you will have a more expensive courtroom fight on your hands if you deny the rights of this businessman when similar establishments already exist.

    So here I stand. I am not a personal fan of McDonald’s restaurants, and I have never been to Loma Linda. I have no stake in either place. Yet I will fiercely defend your right to practice your religion, if you will defend the right of a businessman to legally and lawfully build a burger joint.

    And I’ll take a side order of fries with that to go, please.


  5. My Guilty Conscience

    January 11, 2012 by Ryan

    I have a confession to make.

    I didn’t sleep very well last night, because I robbed a bank.

    At least, I dreamed that I did.

    It wasn’t your typical heist. Nothing in dream-land ever is. It felt like a Sunday afternoon. There were no people at the bank, except for me and my accomplice. We had opened the doors, walked in, went to the back, effortlessly opened the vault, and began bagging up handfuls of money.

    No guns pointed; no notes handed to the teller; no ski masks or Halloween costumes.

    When we were done, we walked casually out the front door. The parking lot was empty. There were no police cars around. No one shouted, “Put your hands in the air, we’ve got you surrounded!”

    As I walked down the front stairs of the bank, I thought to myself, “They have cameras! They will know what I look like!” I started to sweat as I mentioned this thought to my partner in crime, but my accomplice was calm and collected, and told me to not act nervous or I’ll attract attention. He was an older man who apparently was experienced in this kind of work. I don’t know who he was, or how I had come to be involved with him. Such details didn’t seem important in this particular dream.

    What seemed important now was that I was forever a criminal. They had my picture and my prints.

    We walked about a half-a-block through a residential neighborhood to where we had parked my wife’s car by the side of the road in the shade of a tree.

    I thought how inexperienced I must be at bank robbery, as we entered my car. This car is not suitable for a getaway vehicle! It doesn’t accelerate very fast, and doesn’t have a very large gas tank. We would surely be caught up to, in speed or in distance, if they pursued us.

    Except for the fact that no one pursuing us.

    As I started the car, I heard the first siren in the distance. I shook with fear, and my partner told me to relax. It was an ambulance.

    We drove on, unmolested and unafraid. I dropped him off at his home. He took his bag of cash inside, and I never saw him again.

    Next I did the only thing that seemed right. I went to work. After all, I still had my day job to attend to.

    As I tried to go about my work, I was consumed with guilt. I couldn’t concentrate. I was sure they were going to catch up to me. They would notice the money was gone, and look at that video tape eventually. They would see my face, and come and cuff me and book me.

    What would my wife and children think then?

    I was paralyzed with fear, anxiety, and worry. I tried to act like nothing was wrong, but I could not.

    In dream land, this particular day at work they sent an email out inviting the entire company to come and eat free pizza. They had purchased enough for everyone to have all they wanted.

    And I was so sick to my stomach that I couldn’t even look at it.

    A couple of times I tried to confess to coworkers what I had done. Each time, I couldn’t say the words.

    I was hopelessly trapped.

    Finally, I heard an alarm. I was done for!

    Fortunately, it was my real-life alarm clock, and I was saved from this torture. The dream was over.

    I felt like I had slept on top of a pile of bricks. Unrestful. Uncomfortable.

    The moral of the story: I’ll never make a good bank robber. Not even in my wildest dreams.


  6. The Muppets – movie thoughts

    December 29, 2011 by Ryan

    Tonight I watched The Muppets.

    I know, I’m a little late to the party. The movie has been out for over a month. I don’t get out to the movies much.

    (Insert Statler and Waldorf heckle here: “Lucky!”)

    I would describe myself as an above-average Muppet fan. I’ve seen the movies, watched the TV series (at least what has been released to DVD so far), and I admire Jim Henson’s work. I know the names and stories of many of the Puppeteers, and I listen to the Muppetcast Podcast as a passive-listener.

    Going into the movie, I was worried about two things.

    One: the plot is the old over-used Muppet formula — the gang has gone their separate ways, and must be brought together. It was done several times already, and would it work to do it again?

    Two: Only one original puppeteer, still performing his own characters, remains from the Muppet Show days (Gonzo’s performer Dave Goelz). Every other major character is performed by a replacement puppeteer. Would they remain true to the characters and vocals?

    So here is my reaction, after seeing the movie for the first-time:

    Knowing this, the performances were great! Rowlf the Dog (who was the original Muppet to rise to popularity on The Jimmy Dean Show, even before Kermit the Frog) had a very brief speaking role, where his voice unfortunately sounded completely wrong to me. Fozzie Bear had more speaking parts, and didn’t sound right about half of the time he spoke. Despite these expected vocal differences in nearly all of the characters, they stayed very true to their personalities.

    It felt like most of the singing and dancing was done by humans. As I left the movie, that struck me as odd. The songs were catchy, and the lyrics were just right to fit a Muppet movie. They took advantage of the talent in human Amy Adams by giving her a couple of great singing moments. But overall it seemed like it was out of balance with other Muppet productions, with too many humans driving the musical numbers.

    A couple of times in outdoor scenes, we saw a billboard for Cars 2. That is a different franchise, and a movie which had its own critical problems with many fans. I know they filmed the Muppet movie about the time that Cars 2 was released and being promoted, and it does make sense to have another Disney movie on the billboard, if they are going to have anything at all. But by the time The Muppets reached theaters, Cars 2 was old news. I’m not sure what I would have replaced it with, but it will forever remain something that add a date reference to the movie – something most movies (but especially the Muppets) have always tried to avoid. Likewise the billboard for the iPad 2. In a movie that otherwise avoided modern technology (again dating the movie), why was this present? Maybe these things were unavoidably part of the outdoor shots they filmed – or Apple paid to have product placement in there?

    The above-average Muppet fan in me is pretty sure that unseen announcer during the telethon is Jerry Nelson. Jerry had to retire due to health issues, but still does some vocal work for Sesame Street. It sounds like him, and I was pleased to think that he was given the opportunity to be part of the movie.

    Finally, what happens next? As expected at the end of the tried-and-true formula, the gang is back together, and the show went on! Now that it is over, what happens? I would love to see a return of The Muppet Show now that this movie has proven that the performers have what it takes to make new Muppet entertainment! We now know that the Muppet theatre is rebuilt, and the brand is safe. The audience has been primed for the series to begin again. So I hope somebody at Disney is listening, and seriously things about resurrecting The Muppet Show format again. It could be fantastic!


  7. Just Passing Through…

    December 22, 2011 by Ryan

    Several times each day, as I walk through the building at my place of employment, I pass the kind receptionists who work at the front desk.

    At once, I feel both admiration and sorrow for them. They sit at the desk, day after day, and represent our company to all visitors who wander through the doors. Their work is open for all to observe.

    The pressure is on.

    They must look professional. Even when the rest of the company is enjoying a casual day, they must take their casual attire up a notch.

    They must smile. Even when people they might not like personally walk through their “office” or approach their desk to ask for assistance, they just keep smiling.

    They must remain friendly. Over 400 people walk by their desk in any given day. I imagine that when each of those 400 individuals say hello to the people at the desk, they expect to be greeted warmly in return. These receptionists manage to learn most or all of the names of these people, laugh at their jokes, and treat them as a friend.

    They must be knowledgeable. Because they are positioned in the open, at the front of the building, they are asked for absurd knowledge expected to know far more than their job description requires.

    They must be prepared. People frequently ask them for supplies – pens, notepads, markers, hand sanitizer, etc. I have to imagine that they cringe inside when someone, coughing and sneezing, approaches and asks for a box of facial tissue. However, see the rules above concerning smiling and remaining friendly.

    Which brings me to my dilemma.

    As I mentioned, I must pass their desk several times a day. What should I do to acknowledge their presence? And at what point do I become a pest to them?

    If occasionally I need to walk through a smaller office of an executive in the building, it becomes very obvious that I am “in their space” and so a word of greeting is certainly appropriate. The front desk is, in a sense, the largest (and least-private) office in the building. Whether I am going to the restroom, crossing the lobby to the other side of the building, or headed to the stairs, I am passing through their space. They are living, human beings, and deserve some sort of recognition, right?

    Since I must pass this way several times a day, should I extend a “hello” or prepare a witty comment for each stroll? If I did, would that not quickly put me on the list of people that annoy them? Or quite the opposite, would they consider me to be one of the friendliest workers and delight each time I came along? I’d never really be sure, because – remember – they are expected to keep smiling all of the time.

    So, to attempt to gain perspective, I reverse the situation in my mind. I wonder if, for some reason, they needed to come to my desk to ask something of me, how it would play? Would I smile and greet them as a treasured friend, and give them everything they requested with a smile and a song? I’m sure I would try to do so. But what if they randomly came through my workspace and said “Hi, Ryan! Hope your day is great!” as they continued on? After several occurrences, would I start to feel like that was disingenuous? Or creepy?

    Yet if as a coworker they always passed my desk without speaking, would I start to wonder if they were upset, unkind, or simply unimpressed with me or my work?

    And so, I’m left wondering – what is the proper greeting or acknowledgement of the hard working people who act as the public face, and work to make the company look good?

    I have not yet decided what is right. If you figure it out, will you let me know?

    You can leave a message for me with the front desk.


  8. Mild He lays his glory by

    December 22, 2011 by Ryan

    God himself – moved by love for His very often unlovely and ungrateful creatures — chose to live among mortals in hopes of redeeming us by His grace. “Mild He lays his glory by,” sings the Christmas carol, in a line far too easily passed over.

    http://www.deseretnews.com/article/700209032/Pure-love-led-Christ-to-descend-the-courts-of-glory.html


  9. The Only Sure Way

    December 17, 2011 by Ryan

    “Nearly two thousand years ago a perfect Man walked the earth—Jesus the Christ. … In His life, all the virtues were lived and kept in perfect balance; He taught men truth—that they might be free; His example and precepts provide the great standard—the only sure way—for all mankind”

    Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1988, p. 8


  10. That Star in a Precise Orbit

    December 10, 2011 by Ryan

    ‎”The same God that placed that star in a precise orbit millennia before it appeared over Bethlehem in celebration of the birth of the Babe has given at least equal attention to placement of each of us in precise human orbits so that we may, if we will, illuminate the landscape of our individual lives, so that our light may not only lead others but warm them as well.”

    Neal A. Maxwell